Author Archives: Wendy

Through tears, I read the text I couldn’t imagine what was behind those simple words, Love Her Better… tears of worry, anger, self-pity, disbelief and incapability crossed my mind. How could he love me better? Why was it necessary to love me better. Looking back in history many of the most famous women have struggledContinue reading “Love Her Better!”

People don’t really change they just start to reflect who they really are.  Why would I start out with such a negative statement? In life how often do we have to hide who we are so we are not discovered. The problem is how long can we as individuals really continue to look at ourselvesContinue reading “Self – Reflect”

A recent call from a friend started in panic… “What was she going to do?” “How would she be able to face herself?” “Who could she turn to in this moment where she needed to feel like what she had done was okay?” were the main questions she rambled on through tears. I did my bestContinue reading “Self Examination…”

Which battles are worth fighting with your mate and which ones should be brushed under the rug… and that doesn’t mean saved for another day…to rehash into bigger problems. I am positive that the bible says in Matthew 18:21-22 “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brotherContinue reading “Forgiveness??”

What is said? Who makes the choices? Who says what? Who says when? In marriage those very questions can cause friction in the simplest instances. Two years ago tomorrow I am married to my best friend… (period) after 7 years of dating we finally said why not! My mom always told me that marriage isContinue reading “what difference!”

Everyone knows how each of us feels when we have someone to rely on. A person you trust could be your family, a friend, a soul mate and we can never forget almighty God. At the end of a long day we would all have a moment to thank that someone for being there forContinue reading “40 Days and 40 nights”